Mahusiano au ndoa ni kitu kinachohusisha watu wawili ambao ni mke na mume ambapo licha ya kuhusiana na kushare vitu mbalimbali lakini kila mmoja ana hisia zake na maamuzi yake ambapo hii ina maana kuwan kushauriana ni sawa lakini siyo kulazimisha mtu kufata maamuzi au mambo ambayo unayafata.
Katika hili suala wahanga kwa mara nyingi huwa ni wanawake ambapo katika mahusiano au ndoa wanawake wamekuwa wakiyafata na kuathiriwa na maamuzi ya wanaume zao, Tafadhali tuelewane hapa sijasema kuwa wanawake msiwasikilize wanaume zenu katika ndoa ila nataka kushauri walau kidogo katika hili.
Unaweza kukuta mwanamke alikuwa na ndoto fulani katika maisha yake lakini huwa mara nyingi huacha ndoto hizo na kufata ndoto zao na kuwafuata wanaume wao ambapo muda mwingine hufanya hivyo kwa furaha na hiari lakini wakati mwingine hufanya bila kupenda.
Kulazimishana katika maamuzi ya shughuli zetu mbalimbali tukiwa katika ndoa au mahusiano ni kitu kibaya sana maana huwa na hatari ya kuharibu maisha na mahusiano kiujumla maana huweza pelekea ugomvi,maumivu na mateso kwa baadhi ya watu hata vifo.
Hivi karibuni kumetokea na tukio ambalo linahusisha mauaji ya mke baadaya kukataa kuungana na mume kusali kanisa moja.
Kwa kweli kulazimishana ni hatari sana hivyo basi tusipende kulazimishana vitu ambapo siyo vyema kwakuwa huharibu maisha na ndoto hivyo basi kila mmoja apewe nafasi ya maamuzi.
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